Reflective responding is a great tool to add to your parenting toolbox
Practice noticing your child's thoughts, wishes, and feelings and reflecting them back. For example, "You're so excited to go see Grandma...
A simple change of one word can make a world of difference!
Instead of using "if/then" statements with your children, try using "when/then." Example: "If you make your bed we can go to the park"...